Run a Follow-Up That Finds Out What Really Happened

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Run a Follow-Up That Finds Out What Really Happened

Also useful for: Mental Health Counselors

35 min Intermediate Communication Communicate Better Difficult Conversation

Prepare a neutral follow-up conversation that gets beyond "I didn't do it" and helps you understand what changed, what got in the way, and what should happen next.

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Use this when

Use this before a follow-up when someone made a plan, commitment, or referral decision but completed only part of it, took a different action, or didn't act. It also works when the reason isn't yet clear or the original plan may no longer fit.

You'll need

  • Original goal or concern
  • Previous plan
  • Known update
  • Time since last conversation
  • Changed circumstances or risks
  • Practice limits and requirements

You'll get

  • A neutral recap, a question sequence that distinguishes progress from barriers, a clear safety checkpoint, and at least two realistic ways to revise the plan
  • You can explain what changed without assigning blame
  • You also have a person-owned next step, a check-in point, and a documentation outline that separates facts, reports, actions, and decisions.

By the end of this playbook

You will have:

  • A neutral recap, a question sequence that distinguishes progress from barriers, a clear safety checkpoint, and at least two realistic ways to revise the plan
  • You can explain what changed without assigning blame
  • You also have a person-owned next step, a check-in point, and a documentation outline that separates facts, reports, actions, and decisions.

Sample

This is sample data, not your prompt. Pro unlocks this higher-stakes Playbook. On Free Playbooks you can still copy the assembled prompt into any AI.

Sample input

Original goal: I want to respond to family messages without feeling pulled into every conflict.
Previous plan: I chose to draft one boundary message and review it the next morning before deciding whether to send it.
Known update: I drafted two versions but sent neither. I said a new family argument happened during the week.
Time since: Nine days.
Changed circumstances: It is unknown whether the argument affected my living situation. No immediate danger was disclosed before.
Practice limits: New safety concerns require supervisor consultation. Reports and observations must be documented separately.

Sample assembled prompt

Neutral recap: What we agreed: You...
What I understand so far: You...
A new family argument happened during...
I don't yet know how that...
Opening questions: - What did you...
- Walk me through what happened...
- Was there anything else you...
Safety checkpoint: - Did the recent...
- Is anyone threatening, monitoring, or...
If the answers raise a new...
Revision options: Smaller action: Choose one...
Alternative route: Decide not to message...
Ownership check: Which option, if either,...
What would you change to make...

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